On one

13 Apr

Romance to guys today is dead. Yes I said it.
It’s not that women are looking for this movie version of romance and courtship. Well maybe some are but not all of us! But what we do want is to feel special. Like you have gone out of your way to show your girl how much you love and appreciate her. AND not through SEX. Sorry guys. I know it’s how you receive love. But to us girls…try it again. Seriously is it so hard to do something? Whether you are rolling in multi millions or not, be creative. Quoting Kevin Hart, “Stick to what you know man!” There are ways that you can do things to show your girl how much you care rather than blowing your budget on an expensive date. Dig a little deeper and find out what will make her day. And yes guys this will eventually lead to great sex! WHY because in that instant you put her first and really took the time to think about her.
Please note gentleman that there is no road quicker to being by yourself than not thinking of your lady. Consistently. To balance it out ladies should be doing the same. But if you find yourself in a situation where it feels one sided…perhaps you need to have a real conversation with your significant other. As for me and my house, I need to feel adored. Am I spoiled no…it really is just my nature. I need to feel wanted…from the way you look at me when we are having dinner or by what you say and do. That’s how you get the keys to the kingdom Jesus.

The moral of the story children: if you want to be somebody and you want to go somewhere, you better wake up and pay attention.

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